"You have to dream big to get big." This is what Arnold's dad told him to encourage him to try out for the basketball team. What is one thing that your parent(s) said to you to provide you encouragement when you were doubting yourself.
Let's talk about the chapter REINDEER GAMES. Within this chapter, there were so many little quotes and themes that we can chat about. We will stick with two . . .
Arnold writes, "I've learned that the worst thing a parent can do is ignore their children." There was really so much more to the parenting conversation than this comment, but let's stick with this quote for now. Do you agree or disagree with this statement? Why or why not?
Family was a huge theme to this chapter. Family values differ across groups and cultures. What are one or two values that you hold in regards to family? How is this important to your own culture?
Let's end with on lighter note. At the end of this section, Arnold begins sharing lists; writing lists were his way to grieve through his loss. Choose one of these lists, and share what would be on your own list: people who have given you the most joy in life, musicians who have given you the most joyous music, favorite foods, favorite books, or favorite basketball players.
Next week, we will be discussing the rest of the book! Read to the end, and let's chat about our overall thoughts on the book.